Originally Posted by
LosingmyMisery 
Do you really believe this? I don't believe that for a second. I'm sorry, but your imagination is really working over time. I think people are working on trying to bridge the gap between one another. Read it again and try to remove yourself from the equation. Maybe you will be able to get something out of what is being said. I honestly think that you have closed yourself off and are doing yourself more harm by not trying to see both sides of the issues.
If I might, and I know your post isn't directed at me, but as an outside observer, it is somewhat invalidating to tell another person that such and such is in their imagination.
It does remind me of what my mother used to do to me...oh, you really don't feel that way, etc, when YES, I really did feel that way.
Anyway, I just wanted to interject this.