I know it's difficult.
I am not AA or secular. I take a little bit of everything to survive my day. I think I can look at it from a neutral point of view since I'm not involved.
I've seen the AA program pushed in posts even when the original poster told others they weren't interested and I've seen the secular sarcastic one liners in threads that were off topic.
Talking about how it makes you feel in a personal way is much different than bashing and mocking. I think I've always encouraged posts on personal experiences and struggles with programs.