I guess I usually count on myself. I'm often afraid if I lean on someone they might go down too. If people count on me, it usually brings out the best in me, I try harder. SR seems to be a great place to come when things aren't going so smoothly, it's anonymous, no one has to carry your load, they don't even have to read it, but if they do offer comments, hey great ! it's free and could help. I'm sorry about the "SR funk" that people are feeling now, I'm pretty sure it's just a cycle that will cure itself of it's own accord.