"when I was finally a well-rounded person, with my own friends, interests, commitments, etc., only then did HP see fit to send along someone for me to try on a relationship with.....when I was no longer someone looking for my missing piece, but a whole creation in my own right."
This is EXACTLY what I am working on- I am not ready for a "real" relationship until I am that well rounded whole person and I still seem to struggle getting there. There is a tiny part of me that still is needy and I am struggling to fulfill that myself! Thanks for all your words of encouragement!