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Old 03-16-2009, 07:19 AM
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bragi
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Theresa,

Thanks for the link. This blog looks good!

The thing I found most useful/interesting in this post is the following list of "internal rules":
Here are some examples of internal rules that can get in our way:

* If something goes wrong, it’s my fault.
* If someone is angry, I’m to blame.
* If someone’s upset, I caused it and it’s my job to make them feel better.
* If someone is in trouble, I automatically should help them.
* No one else can do this work. My clients need me.
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