I hope the lawyer can work something out for you. Ideally, it would come out of his spousal support.
I know the law doesn't always follow the right path but:
I once had a friend that had a sister going through a divorce. The sister's ex fought her on every turn when it was between the lawyers. The couple had a disabled child to boot. Once in front of the judge (keep in mind a lot of the dealing isn't heard by the judge) the court threw out the so called deal on the table, called the ex a few choice names, and awarded her MORE than she was asking...because he could.
Keep your head up and your ears open. And that shuffling you'll hear behind you? Thats us...the codie cavalry
