Re: a little help at the beginning
Welcome to SR cccc,
I don't have an opinion about the money thing. It seems like each couple has to work that one out for themselves.
I did want to welcome you and invite you to take a read around. The sticky Posts at the top of this forum by smoke get in my eyes are just great.
I am glad you are going to meetings. Al-Anon has helped me so very much in my recovery. It has become a way of life for me even though I am the only one in the family that works a program.
Do take care and keep coming back so we can get to know each other. We even manage to have alot of fun along the way.
Love and prayers from one who cares,
Daffodil