Atalose,Our lives do seem eerily similar, and I can really relate to all the scenarios such as the cell phone, the secret friends. I used to pray that he would nod off long enough to get a look at the phone, but he was always aware and deleted everything before I could get a look. I was relentless though, and pulled up the cell phone records online, he couldn't delete that. A wealth of information for me. It had gotten to the point where I questioned my own sanity. He is a very convincing liar, and it took alot to try and weed out the truth.