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Old 04-30-2004, 05:11 PM
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kodfishy
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Re: Is he or isn't he?

My AH was in absolutely no danger at work. In his organization, when the bigwigs meet, the "in crowd" goes out to bars after the meetings and makes the real decisions. He did lots of bonding over scotch and made lots of inroads by being a heavy drinker. One thing he was most scared about when he stopped drinking was that he would suffer for it at work.

On the other hand, he went in late a lot because he was always a little, ahem, squeaky, in the mornings. But his office is away from everyone else's, and nobody ever noticed.

While he could maintain great appearances in most areas of his life, his personal relationships were going to sh*t. He stopped talking to almost everyone who loves him. But he just kind of shrank away - he disappeared.

Alcoholism comes in many shapes and forms.

He stopped drinking after he spent a night in jail when he crashed our car and got a DUI.
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