SoCopasetic,
Welcome to the Friends & Family board.
People will be along with their experience, strength, and hope in the next hours; many are not on eastern time so don't get here until a bit later in they day, so take heart if a while goes by before people start posting.
Everyone here understands what it's like to love an addict, to see the person underneath the monster of addiction, and wish we could save them.
You will find love and support here, not judgment.
In the meantime, there are classic information posts at the top of the topics, both here in F&F board, and also in the Grieving board, that you may find helpful to read. We call them "stickys." So if you go to the page with all the post topics, look at the top of the page for the sticky section.
Come back and post as often as you need, we are here for you and your daughter. Since I don't have direct experience similar to your situation, I'll wait for others to post who have closer circumstances.
Hugs and support to you,
CLMI