I agree with Nands. AA certainly doesn't have a monopoly on amends
I found it necessary to make things right with lots of people - for no other reason that it felt the right thing to do....and if I learnt something in my recovery, it was that it was ok to trust my intuition, when I was working towards something other than being drunk.
sometimes it was an apology, sometimes it was action, sometimes it was just something *shared*.
I dunno how they do it in AA but every relationship I have is unique in some way - it makes sense to me, like Nands says, to make an amends in a way that's meaningful to both parties, cos it's for the both of us
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