Hey Marle...truer words have never been spoken. The best thing to do for your kids is to teach them to stand on their own two feet and do for themselves. I guess your daughter will eventually wake up and get sick and tired of her lying, lazy, good for nothing bum of a boyfriend. As her mom, I am sure you know she can do better. The problem is today that most of the young guys in that age group have nothing going for them. Sounds like he is living off of your girl. Pray for her to see the light. Sooner rather than later. I was an enabling mom for a short while. Never again. Because when you know better, you do better. Hopefully his parents and step parents will go broke and stop giving him everything that he doesn't work for. And your daughter needs to do the same. If he doesn't get a job, hope and pray she gets away from him. When your in your 20's you just don't see men for what they really are. Thank You and God Bless You....Angel