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Old 02-26-2009, 05:38 AM
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Bamboozle
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I’m sorry I missed this thread for a couple of days.

SS...I hope you don't mind me asking...but have you flat out talked to him about him getting some help for himself? Maybe you already posted about that and I missed it (so I’m sorry if you already covered it), but it seems to me like he's in denial/doesn’t think anything’s wrong with him about his own stuff. It’s nearly impossible to deal with anyone who doesn’t take care of his/her mental health…just my experience.

I'm really sorry this crap has been heaped upon you. If he brings up the issue of schooling again, perhaps a gentle reminder about how the past is over and done with ...and what's important is the good and hard work you are doing right now to move your life forward. That’s all you can do. Working on sobriety and school and your personal life is a lot to deal with. A LOT.

I hope that he gets help for himself soon so that your journey can become more pleasant. Big hugs.
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