Welcome!
The choice to quit drinking is yours Polly.
You're doing it for yourself.
Chances are, your husband will eventually hop on board also.
Don't let anybody interfere with your sobriety.
My wife still drinks (not as hard core as I was), and it doesn't bother me at all.
I'm hoping she climbs aboard full time eventually of course.
I don't really give a rat's a.ss what anyone else does,
as long as they don't try and interfere with my own choice of a sober lifestyle.
Stick around.