Hi Marle:
ALL I CAN SAY TO THAT IS AMEN!
I have a girlfriend who has a 26 year old son that is driving her crazy. He was a trained vet-tech, but hurt his back and so he quit. He has been out of work now for 18 months and cannot even collect unemployment.
To add insult to injury they bought him a home right before all this happened and now are paying for two households!
This friend has been around me for years and knows what I've been through! I have even said to her, "do you want to grow up to be like me?"
Poor thing, just can't say no to anything. Recently had his nose fixed 'cause he thinks that's the reason he can't get a job! HELLO??? Oh, he had a job a month ago, but quit after 2 days as he felt he wasn't getting paid enough.
So, what can you do. Everyone has to learn at their own pace. Took me years to get to this point!
Hugs, Devastated