((Marle)) I'm sorry Megan is having to learn, the hard way, that her bf is the one who is a "golddigger". Sorry, but I'm still laughing at his family thinking SHE is the one that is that way, as I know far better.
I was blessed to be raised by parents who instilled a work ethic into me. Yes, I was probably given a few more things than other kids, but other than the 2 years I was out using, I've worked since I was 16. It goes against every bone in my body, to NOT work for what I want. That hasn't stopped me, in the past, from enabling others, though.
You've reminded me, today, why it's the wrong thing to do...it only hurts the one who is enabled.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy