Originally Posted by
Japic05 
Ex IS asking for 1/2 retirement, 1/2 value of vehicle, and SPOUSAL SUPPORT! - who knows what else - probably needs my kidneys, lungs and 1/2 my blood too!
And at this point in my life - reality is that I know he will win. If you admit it - you know how most A's are - they always win - always manage to get out of those DUI's, reduced sentences, throw out of court, drive for yrs without licenses, no insurance, never doing any of the things required by the law and ALWAYS getting away with it.
(((Rita)))
I'll keep you in my prayers and know that God is always fair and just, I hope in this case your A gets little or none of the things that he's asking for.
Years ago, an old-timer taught me this prayer to give me a little comfort in dealing with resentments I had towards my kids step-dad......
God, please bless _ _ _ with a life beyond his wildest dreams and expectations, let him be happy, joyous, and free.
Then he told me to spit in the ground and say
"f _ _ _ him".
It really did help!
