I have to say that now that I'm a recovering addict that I would want to go into a relationship with another addict/alcoholic with my eyes wide open. After all, relapse is rampant in the recovery world. Do I really want to deal with it, I don't know. If I ever do engage in a love relationship with someone else in recovery, I would want them to have some years of sobriety/cleantime, be working with a sponsor, making regular meetings, working steps, staying completely abstinent, and able to talk and answer questions about it.
Good for you for going into this thing with your eyes wide open. Keep them that way!
KJ