Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Oxnard (The Nard), CA, USA.
Posts: 13,935
All I can think is...if it were me and my GF was having difficulty in trusting me again...I would validate her concerns. I would say things like: I know you were joking but I can understand it will be hard for you to trust me again after all I have done in the past.
I guess the psychology learning in me would cause me to validate my GF concerns.
So what I'm saying is: your husband has very real concerns of being manipulated or lied too and validating those concerns lets him know you are trying to understand this position.