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Old 02-08-2009, 08:32 AM
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Yeah, i wasn't implying that i think you're a bad / negative person for using that as one of your tools for staying sober, not at all...

And i kinda thought you would agree with what i meant about preferring to be trying to get something good, rather than avoid something bad...

I kinda hoped that would illustrate what i meant, as i'm sure that is something we all recognise, giving up the drink is about making things better, not just stopping things getting worse...

That was all i meant in the first place - i can see how not drinking to avoid a bad reaction with medication would work, but in my opinion, for me, i would find it to be a fear based thing, and a bit negative - that's not to say it's like that for everyone else, and that's not passing judgement on anyone who might use it as a tool for sobriety...

I certainly didn't think you meant that was the only thing keeping you sober either!

I must be on a communication breakdown today, being misunderstood left right and centre!
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