Somehow establishing boundaries when our loved ones are clean seems a little harder than when they are using...Guess because we fear we may rock the boat. I too found Naranon meetings and reading and posting here were a huge help to get me focused on what was healthy for me and stop enabling my child. Once I did so, not only was I healthier, but my daughter started learning to figure things out for herself and with that came a return of self confidence and more healing for her too - a win win!
Hugs...So glad you found us!