Molly:
Bravo doll! Your are informed & educated; you know who you are & what you want. I like your strength & approach to this. You are not going into it BLIND.
Good Luck & Best wishes
I LOVE LOVE & You deserve a chance at making it work. IMAGINE if all relationships took this much time thought & consideration?
GOOD LUCK!
I am pulling for you. I WISH YOU LOVE
Gold is best!