Mjna,
Hi,I know exactly how you feel! I'm going through the same sort of thing right now! My guy tells me to hang in there and as soon as he gets it together some more, things will get back to "normal". I guess he means that I'll feel more important in his life again, instead of so left out of his sober life! I was the only one there for him when he was detoxing and so sick he could hardly get out of bed and now he's gone back to AA and has all of his old friends to help him along and I want to be helping too, but he doesn't seem to need me right now! We talked about this situation tonight and he just says to be patient and it'll be better! I trust him and will do that and maybe it'll work for you too! I'm new to this whole thing and giving advice seems wrong but I have always felt that just talking about how you feel to the person will make you feel better, and hang in there, after all blood is thicker than alcohol! Maybe just being a sister is all you need to do to help!
Good luck to you and my thoughts and prayers are with you!
Kathy