nice to meet you, spikedaball. do you have health insurance? if so, they may be able to help you with a recommendation. also, i don't know if you are going to alanon or aa, but the folks at those face meetings might have some experience with the places near you.
one thing you might want to ask is what kind of family sessions they have. i think those are important. also, you might want to find out what kind of follow up/outpatient etc they offer after the 28 days...
my daughter went to a program that was NOT dictated to 28 days - her first rehab, she was there for almost 90 days. our insurance covered 30 days, and then we had to do it out of pocket. but that was her best rehab experience, she needed the extra days...
just a few thoughts. good luck with your selection. and keep posting! k