This was his response: (Quess we are clear now about his recovery)
I've tried to respond to this about 3 or 4 different times, started to compose a reply, then discarded it. I am really at a loss for words to try and directly address anything you've said, only to say that it's very presumptuous, almost to the point of arrogance, that you and an alanon counselor would decide any type of retribution I might owe you or anyone for anything I may or may not have done in my past. My intention in reaching out was to express tell you I was sorry for how I treated you as a wife and person. That's it. I am sorry about all of this.