Okay concerning the amends.... I have been speaking with a Alanon sponsor. This is what I wrote him:
I have noticed your remorse and self loathing concerning your past with me. I talked with a Alanon sponsor about the best way to handle the 1988 stolen Vehicle. I do not remember the exact cost of the vehicle but do believe it was about $5,000. We should split the difference and I am asking that you donate $2,500 to a charity of your choice in my name. As you make the donation or donations to equal the total amount, you should send the receipt to me in the post. I am assuming