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Old 01-27-2009, 05:12 AM
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Ann
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So should I tell him about my pain without being a jerk ...try to detach? And he says he has alot of other things he would like to apologize about. Thus far it has been email but I would like to hear him apologize on the phone.
And this would make your life better because...?

If you need to do more work on healing this wound, then perhaps professional counseling would be a healthier choice than trying to deal with a person who is not stable.

The sooner you walk from this, do what you need to do to heal from it, and get that man out of your life, the better off you will be.

Or you can do it the hard and painful way...you won't be the first, nor the last to just keep doing what is causing you pain.

Please know that although this may sound harsh, it is said with love in my heart because I know how blurred everything can become when the waves of codependency strike.

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