Former addict calling with amends
Hello All,
When I was 18 years old I married a guy that was using and drinking but he was secretly doing this and I did not know. We parted in a terrible way, my mother had to come get me. He ended up stealing my car. I have not seen him since and that was 20 years ago. He recently found me on facebook and wants to make amends. He had a good job, family , three kids and says he doesn't use. However he commented that he had not had anything to drink in 18 years but was drinking his 3rd glass of wine.
He is apologizing for all the things he did. It brought up alot of pain and I started crying. I guess that was all so unresolved for so long and here he is. I don't know if I can trust him. He sounds very apologetic and rational. What about the stolen car issue? Any ideas would be helpful here!