Linda I know exactly where you're coming from.I am going though the same thing with my son.He is 27,doesn't have a job and still manges to get drunk quite often.He has a friend who is a alcholic,this guy does have a job so when he goes out to get plastered he always calls my son,This is my son's one and only friend,or I should say drinking buddy.Your boyfriend sounds like he is in a very dangerous frame of mind.I will say an extra prayer for you tonight,please consider leaving him until you see he is serious about getting some badly needed help for himself.(((HUGS))) and God Bless.