Hi fubar you will have to get used to the fact that the majority of people on SR are aa people.
It can get you down sometimes but what can you do it's a waste of your time to try and change them.
Unfortunately you need to be on those forums sometimes so just bite your lip and come and vent over here.
If you kick off over there a lot of people (not everyone) will kill you and jump up and down on your twitching corpse. lol
Or even worse they will pray for you.