Originally Posted by
GlennMatthew 
pray about it... let your HP guide you in this.
obviously being open about it is going to be most beneficial for you,
but timing is CRUCIAL....
Glen,
This is the
secular forum, as in people who are largely atheist or agnostic. Telling someone here to "pray about it" or "let your HP guide you" is the same as going into a Jewish or Muslim forum and telling them to "eat pork over it".