Hi Bethann...
Dino has a wonderful family, too. At least, no more faults than the average. It's hard sometimes to understand someone else's dissatisfaction. But he needs to think about it and explore it. Preferably in a group or with a counselor, because he's likely to come up with a lot of wrong answers before he'll get down to the real ones. You hear them all the time, from "my wife doesn't understand me" to "the WTC collapsed.".
I too, have a worklife that does not permit getting to meetings, and I found this site for that reason, too. But everyone here who goes recommends it.
Keep on posting!
Smoke