Well I have a different approach
why would I hide my where abouts?
I would probably tell him exactly where I was going& Leave him a AA pamphlet with meets & times..
I am of the opinion that any form of ABUSE IS UN acceptable. I turned my back on my addict after 25+ yrs of friendship & 2 yrs of relationship.
life is short & fleeting, toomorrow isn't promised. you survived the hell of addiction & lived to tell it. Sorry doll but he would have to be jealous & controling of himself!But thats me
I wish you JOY PEACE & Happiness
good luck KCB
Gold is best!