Thanks for all the support. I'm having a tough time today. Didn't sleep well or much last night. He's now trying to tell me that the only reason he made that 90-days totally clean resolution on NY eve was because I had been on his back. I know in my heart I haven't been on him - - at ALL. I've invited him to come to AA meetings at the same time as my alanon meetings, cuz he said he doesn't like the place he's been going to. But he's not wanted to come, and I haven't pushed.
So now he won't even take responsiblity for the promise he broke to himself, because he says that he did it under pressure. What BS!! He's so in his own world.........