Thanks jons5150 - here are some answers from your questionnaire - please tell me what you think. The counsellor we went to lastnight couldn't give me any answers to my questions at all!?!!?!
1. Do you lose time from work due to your drinking? NO
2. Is drinking making your home life unhappy? YES
3. Do you drink because you are shy with other people? NO
4. Is drinking affecting your reputation? YES
5. Have you ever felt remorse after drinking? YES
6. Have you gotten into financial dificulties as a result of your drinking? NO
7. Do you turn to lower companions and an inferior environment when drinking? YES
8. Does your drinking make you careless of your family's welfare? NO
9. Has your ambition decreased since drinking? NO
10. Do you crave a drink at a definite time daily? NO
11. Do you want a drink the next morning? NO
12. Does drinking cause you to have difficulty in sleeping? NO
13. Has your efficiency decreased since drinking? YES
14. Is drinking jeopardizing your job or business? NO
15. Do you drink to escape from worries or troubles? YES
16. Do you drink alone? YES
17. Have you ever had a complete loss of memory as a result of your drinking? YES
18. Has your physician ever treated you for drinking? NO
19. Do you drink to build up your self-confidence? NO
20. Have you ever been in a hospital or institution on account of drinking? NO
Thanks for your help