Thanks outtolunch for your wonderful letter. I can not respond yet, since I am new to this. Yes my daughter is begging me to come out of rehab. I talked to her about the sober house we plan on sending her to afterwards and she has no desire to go there either. I really believe she thinks she has control over this, but I know better. I am meeting with her and her therapist next week. I am sad that she chose not include her Dad. She is not going anywhere..don't worry. I am hoping that they will get her to love life..at this point she tells me she does not have fun unless she is drunk or stoned....and like I am suppose to believe she is ready to come home??? I think not. I am praying once she gets out of this phase of her recovery that she will look forward to moving into a sober house.