Thread: Change of Plans
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Old 01-01-2009, 07:39 PM
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justaboutus
Rediscovering myself
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
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I found myself at restaurants... watching the people at the next table... counting how many drinks they've had. Madness.

Just my two cents on this:
He told me tonight that I hadn't made any progress on "this issue" (meaning his alcoholism), that I was still right where I started. I still wanted to control him. I still wanted him to be someone else.

This is a really painful comment to me. I'm working really hard.
Total manipulation. Don't you HATE it when they know exactly which buttons to push! Ignore it. You're doing great.
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