p.s. I only reached that point after YEARS of being in relationships with addicts/alcoholics, during which time I developed my own addiction. After 20 years of allowing men to bring me down, I can assure you, you deserve so much more.
It's only when we start believing in ourselves, and stop thinking that any other person "completes" us, that we can truly enjoy all life has to offer.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy