Of course for me the drama is my independence. I know since I have going to therapy for "my problems" he has accused me of having affairs. I spend 90 percent of my time at home when I am not at work. I have a kid with me when I am home and the hour of therapy I get is accounted for. I do have about a 15 minute drive there so I guess I should make the best of the drive time and have my affair in the car. I am sorry I feel that he tries to account for every waking moment I have and it is making me crazy. I have been on Christmas break and he has made sure I have driven him to work daily so he can control when I have any free time. I take him at 530am and have to pick him up at 2 or 230 so he knows I can't have any free time during the day for myself. Thanks for listening to me whine!!!!!!