I have thought about this some over the last couple of months. Of course I think the idea of a safe place is really an illusion, as life lived is inherintly..not safe
But I do have to make some choices about where I choose to spend my time and where I can best support and be supported is part of the decision.
SS...love to see you post on the secular 12 step thread as you work through the steps and AA stuff...always helps me.
I really don't run into problems within my f2f AA group and I have to remember that. Just got home from a wonderful supportive meeting and dinner with my home group