gosh wendy ....there are as many ways to do that as there are people!
Seriously? You know the drill...I've written about it in the 12 step secular recovery section....I'm not good at simple.
I just believe in things like cause and effect ..skip the god in the 5th...ask that i may get better..not directed at a deity but at my own self I guess...not sure how to be specific...someone else asked me this today, and i guess I'll have to write something out either tomarrow or saturday..need to put some thought in to it....I can pm it to you too if you like.
for now...would it help him just to know that there are agnostics and athiests doing it?