Well my partner has tipped a whole bottle of vodka down the sink in front of me (he is a lot stronger than me, trust me I was fighting for it). God, I just remembered that episode *sigh* But anyway, I was very bitter & if I was honest....I still am.......yes, even though I am a week sober!! Totally irrational I know, but thats me.
I have appreciated MUCH more the times my partner has told me he loves me & I can do it ...or the times my best friend has just listened to me......... about my problem.
Support and understanding win out for me.
Ring him up, or when you see him tell him you are concerned/worried for him, does he need any help? I'd say it would be best to do alone and when he/she is sober.