Making amends is only step 9, thank goodness! And my kids are the main ones, and I am trying to make amends to them already.
Although I did dick my manager at work around a bit, disappearing in my "lunch" breaks to far-flung chemists to get supplies, lol!
Also told my step dad to f*ck off, but, he kind of deserved it - ha, ha! Then there is that lodger I ruthlessly slept with and never called the next day!
But mainly my kids!!