I have been going to Al-anon for a number of years. I took a break when my boys were growing up because their schelude were so hectic and I knew that I was going to stay at least until the last one left, so I made the best out of it.
I started going regularly to Al-anon again before I left 3 months ago. The last two groups were bad experiences. I opened up and did not get a favorable (comforting) response. I felt they lost patience with me. Now, as I look back I was just grieving.
I don't have the energy to reach out again right now with Al-anon. I've been going to this spouse abuse support group now where I'm learning about spouse abuse. I like the group, they are patient with me and encourage me.
No, I don't have brother, sisters or anyone. I have 2 or 3 close girlfriends and my church. That;s about it. That's why I'm here