Thanks Stone, Lb, Nands.
I hope someday he will see that some of the "strained family dynamics" are HIS problem and are no longer mine. A year ago I would have fed into his crap and responded immediately. I have a feeling the rest of the family will get on him a little for being such a prlck. He seems to think my life isnt "together" as he puts it but I see things much differently. My rent is paid, I have income, Im not drinking or drugging and I at least have friends that care about me and my feelings unlike him.
At the risk of not venting my anger.....What a DOUCHE BAG he is !!!!!
I may have to accept it but I DONT have to like it.