Dont drive yourself crazy trust your gut. My AH recently spent 10 days in jail for retail theft even prosecutor claimed there was a ring of addicts stealing steaks and diapers and baby formula and trading to dealers for 50 cents on the dollar.
Some people will argue with me but Ive seen for myself dealers take almost anything, I often joked Id like to go to their yard sales.
Also AH has taken things and given to others who would appreciate, to feel good about himself or keep up a reputation of a "nice guy"(Same with food)
it started with the little things people wouldnt notice.