yeah its probably him
Talked to abf after I posted. He says its ridiculous and it hurts deeply that I am implying its him but who the heck else could it be? Well I checked my top drawer for a spare key I had....yeah its gone....so now I got to change my door locks, maybe install a micro cam...sheesh....and most of all distance myself AGAIN to the point of a complete breakup...yeah its happened before a couple of years ago...maybe getting burnt this time will do it. He has lost lots of weight and has been making little or no eye contact, reading suspense novels and drinking lots of beer, eating lots of candy, playing lots of spider solitaire for long periods of time....psychosis??