I am doing just fine. I have let her go. I have even made some amends to her for getting into her stuff in the first place. She is living on her own and paying for all her stuff. Her boyfriend may be a big codie but he will learn in his own time. I am going to add another Ala-non meeting on Saturday mornings. I would add more but that is all we have in our area. And I am going to begin to search for a sponser. I let my focus slip for a short while but am back on track now. Thanks for all the prayers. I know my daughter has the tools and she is an adult. Her choices. Hugs, Marle