Marle -
BIG hugs going out to you - and your daughter. My husband was convinced for a long time that the only problem that he had was with drugs....not alcohol. So, he would keep drinking. He just didn't have the skill set too handle social situations and life on life's terms. His sobriety finally "stuck" (at least for nw) when he "got" the connection between drinking and drug use.
Glad that you are using your recovery tols and doing what you need too doo foor you. Ultimately it is also what is best for her.
I think that one of the things that I hate most about addiction is the way that hopes and dreams get dashed about.
Will keep you and your daughter in my thoughts and prayers.
Love -