Good morning marle, This has to hurt so much. Your daughter was doing so well and now this. We do get to the point where we have to totally seperate ourselves for our own sanity. Prayers going out that your daughter gets her act together soon and that the bf sees whats going on. It's takes a while to understand the enabling part and if this is new to him~~~lets hope his HP places him in the right direction. Smiles, Bonnie